Have you seen the video about removing the 20-year-old blackhead?! Can you imagine letting something fester in you for so long? Like, how did you not address that before it became a tumor under your skin? Even if you couldn't reach it, get someone else to clear that thing out! But I was thinking, how much do we let emotional blackheads grow? Our skin is full of holes, openings where toxins are released and bacteria can get in. When bacteria get trapped in those pores, blackheads form. Just as nasty stuff gets in our skin, nasty things get caught up in our minds, like mental blackheads. These can be much easier to overlook than the ones on our skin. If something gets caught in there that you don't want in there and aren't aware of, it continues to grow.
The blackhead at the skin level get bigger and becomes a plug. Normal blackheads are squishy and sticky, but plugs are thicker and tougher. When removed, they leave a more obvious mark because they took up more space. They took up residence where they had no business being. That's what happens in our minds when we let something negative creep in.
For example, say that someone says something to you that you interpret as critical toward you, and you internalize it. You start to have negative feelings toward that person. Now, every time you interact with them, you think of that negative association. However, you don't address that instance. Instead, you let that negativity develop further. You have your guard up around that person until one day, it happens again. This time, it was more than a slight. They definitely said something rude to you. Well, that blackhead just got bigger. You may never resolve your issue with that person but you encounter many other situations that add to that blackhead. Eventually, 20 years have gone by and that thing you left untreated....it requires surgical removal.
The blackhead has invaded. It's not just at the surface of the skin. It has grown outward underneath the skin, so it can't simply be squeezed or plucked out. It requires cutting the skin, and once removed, it leaves a gaping hole. That hole leaves the flesh vulnerable to new infection, so the wound must be packed or stitched.
Take a moment to think of the potential emotional/mental blackheads lurking in your mind. That little speck that got a little too comfortable, taking up space in your brain. That thing that became a "thing." It grew bigger and you neglected to remove it when it would have been less painful to do so. Now it doesn't come out easily. You wonder how you overlooked this massive, ugly thing. Can you imagine if we were as attentive to our mental "skin" as we are our physical skin? If we took the care to wash it or at the very least examine it every day, or every week even, to make sure everything was okay? If we did an inventory of the hurts, offenses, and blemishes that we see before they can take residence in our minds?
I don't think we think about the things that people see that we don't think they can see. Like coworker who makes comments about a certain subject. You can feel through their tone that they have an attitude about that subject. Or your friend who teases people too much but can't take being the center of a joke. How much more unattractive do you think it is for people to see your mental blackheads than your physical ones? Uh, congratulations on your face, but your inner person could use a makeover?
That thing that has grown for decades doesn't leave easily. It has gotten really comfortable. If you just pick and pull at it with tweezers, you'll break it up, but little bits will still be left in there. You need a complete excavation for healing to happen. What blackheads/plugs will you get rid of today?
The blackhead at the skin level get bigger and becomes a plug. Normal blackheads are squishy and sticky, but plugs are thicker and tougher. When removed, they leave a more obvious mark because they took up more space. They took up residence where they had no business being. That's what happens in our minds when we let something negative creep in.
For example, say that someone says something to you that you interpret as critical toward you, and you internalize it. You start to have negative feelings toward that person. Now, every time you interact with them, you think of that negative association. However, you don't address that instance. Instead, you let that negativity develop further. You have your guard up around that person until one day, it happens again. This time, it was more than a slight. They definitely said something rude to you. Well, that blackhead just got bigger. You may never resolve your issue with that person but you encounter many other situations that add to that blackhead. Eventually, 20 years have gone by and that thing you left untreated....it requires surgical removal.
The blackhead has invaded. It's not just at the surface of the skin. It has grown outward underneath the skin, so it can't simply be squeezed or plucked out. It requires cutting the skin, and once removed, it leaves a gaping hole. That hole leaves the flesh vulnerable to new infection, so the wound must be packed or stitched.
Take a moment to think of the potential emotional/mental blackheads lurking in your mind. That little speck that got a little too comfortable, taking up space in your brain. That thing that became a "thing." It grew bigger and you neglected to remove it when it would have been less painful to do so. Now it doesn't come out easily. You wonder how you overlooked this massive, ugly thing. Can you imagine if we were as attentive to our mental "skin" as we are our physical skin? If we took the care to wash it or at the very least examine it every day, or every week even, to make sure everything was okay? If we did an inventory of the hurts, offenses, and blemishes that we see before they can take residence in our minds?
I don't think we think about the things that people see that we don't think they can see. Like coworker who makes comments about a certain subject. You can feel through their tone that they have an attitude about that subject. Or your friend who teases people too much but can't take being the center of a joke. How much more unattractive do you think it is for people to see your mental blackheads than your physical ones? Uh, congratulations on your face, but your inner person could use a makeover?
That thing that has grown for decades doesn't leave easily. It has gotten really comfortable. If you just pick and pull at it with tweezers, you'll break it up, but little bits will still be left in there. You need a complete excavation for healing to happen. What blackheads/plugs will you get rid of today?